I just wanted to let anyone know who is a virgin, that it is in NO way a bad thing. I think it's such an amazing thing, honestly, and I'm jealous. I think it would be nice to not have sex and wait until you really, really knew a person.. you were with them for years.. and then have sex when it means something. It's natural to want it, and be curious, but please don't give in. It's not all it's cracked up to be. I mean, sure, it will be good in the moment, but do you really wanna wake up the next day and have all these questions running through your mind?: Why did I do that? Did I make a mistake? How often am I going to have to do this to keep this person? Those are the things that went through my mind my first time. I was honestly CRYING the first time I had sex. Don't do that to yourself. It's not worth it.
I was tired of being the 'only virgin' in school. Never believe that you're the only virgin, because I have know so many people that lie about it. You'd be surprised.. it's always the people you would least expect too. The popular girls who you think have been with sooo many guys.. don't believe em. And, even if they have.. they're going to regret it later on.
You don't need to have sex with someone to show them you love them. You don't need someone who is going to get upset with you if you don't have sex with them. You know what that tells me? That they don't love you and why give something so precious to them? When I first lost my virginity, I was thinking.. oh, that's it? No biggie.. I don't feel bad.. it's not a big deal.. I didn't lose anything. I was wrong.. I feel all the time that I lost something.. as weird as it sounds.
Just had that on my mind...
